Keep the handle and don’t worry if some “out” you. The nym provides important space where you don’t feel the need to respond to every last bit of abuse, and to look at the world with fresh eyes. There are two other advantages. First it annoys the right people. Second, you can manipulate the nym in ways that amuse you and yours.Being better known as somebunny else is uplifting and offers wonderful escape fantasies. For example, Eli and Ms. Rabett have taken to virtual weekend tours, to Paris, to Venice and to points beyond. The Rabetts get to take private jets, stay in top hotels, engage in romantic strolls and museums, and oh, those candlelight dinners, although having to order carrots is a bit limiting. In short, to escape the humdrum.